Why Fighting Isn’t the Problem—But How You Fight Might Be
Couples everywhere can find themselves stuck in cycles of unresolved conflict. Renowned relationship therapist Esther Perel reminds us that arguments are often fueled by unmet emotional needs, not just the surface-level issues we tend to focus on. Conflict is a natural and inevitable part of any relationship. You can’t avoid it—but you can learn to navigate it with more insight, empathy, and skill. In fact, with the right tools, conflict can become a gateway to deeper intimacy, understanding, and trust.
So, is it possible to turn conflict into connection?
Absolutely. But it takes:
- Patience
- Emotional curiosity
- And a shift in perspective
It’s not just about what you're fighting about—it’s about what you’re fighting for.